
Just because I’ve written this book / blog about how to run your business does not mean that bad things never happen to me.
Recently, I’ve gone through a period that in the past would have probably made me want to shut my doors. I lost 3 of my 4 bathers in a very short amount of time. Then, a fabulous receptionist that I had just hired left for a new job.
All this happened while I was training up my existing staff to step in when my head groomer and manager leaves for maternity leave. And to add to this on a personal level, my mother had surgery with a long recovery that required a lot of attention.
There was a time that this would have completely overwhelmed me. However, now I find myself able to get through these moments without falling apart. I don’t worry or go into panic mode. I have my program and systems in place, so I know what to do.
I find myself being very calm, which helps to keep my stress level down, and also allows me to be comforting to my remaining staff who were kind-of freaking out about the situation. I was able to calm them down and let them know, “I’ve got this, we are going to get through this, and we’ll be fine.”
When things seem to go terribly wrong all at once...
The first thing you have to do is stabilize your shop. If you are in a situation that you lose two or more employees at a time, you may have to move people around, bring in an old staff member, or even bring in a family member or significant other just to get things covered. In this situation, I was able to shift people back towards the bathing, while I stepped in to handle the grooms. By doing this, my staff didn’t feel like they were taking the burden for me or going beyond their comfort level to take on more. I also held more meetings to discuss what was going on. I remained calm and was able to let them depend on me throughout the transition.
Next, I went into hiring mode. Since I had my ads already stored on Craigslist (click here to see How to Write an Ad) it only took me five minutes to tweak and post the ad. After which, I put the rest of my hiring and process into place.
This all took a couple of weeks, and my life didn’t stop during this time. I think one of the most important things that I’ve learned is to pace yourself during these times, so that you don’t get so wrapped up in the issue that everything else stops. You might need to remind yourself that this is just one part of your business and that it is not the whole thing. You need to make sure that you are taking breaks from the process, like not looking at resumes on Sunday or taking a day off from interviewingl.
There's a paragraph Zen an the Art of Happiness by Chris Prentiss that states: Imagine that god appeared before you this instant and said: "I promise you that everything that happens to you from this moment forward will be of the greatest benefit to you and will bring you the utmost good fortune. Suppose God went on to say, "Even though what happens will sometimes appear unfortunate, or hurtful, in the end your life will be wonderfully blessed, and hugely benefited by whatever happens."
I think what’s important to understand when you are going through these things that this is just part of running a business.
These things are not happening because you are doing anything wrong, or because you are a bad person. It is just that these things happen. We never know how long we are going to have someone in our lives or business, it could be for a short time period, or for longer. So, rather than falling apart and going into the “Poor Me” mode, I try to embrace the situation as an opportunity.
It’s not to say I do not find it somewhat frustrating, because I have to stop moving forward, and need to go in a different direction for awhile, but what really helps me keep things in perspective is to anticipate positive things from the new people coming into my shop. (And, by doing so, this also helps new staff feel welcomed, and relieves the tension in the shop!)
Lastly, If you have your system in place, and you go back to that system, you aren’t redoing the whole process each time. One of the reasons that I’ve talked so much about systems in my book / blog, is because you need them -- especially in times like this. Having a set of steps that you take when something like this happens means that you efficiently get back to work much faster, and with a whole lot less stress.
If you think about it, all big businesses and small businesses should be alike. When McDonalds loses someone, they don’t sit around wondering how they are going to go on. They don’t throw their hands up in the air and shout, “OH MY GOD, I AM GOING TO MISS THIS PERSON! What do I do?”
No, they follow their system, put a new person in place, and they get back to work.
When you have your ad, your process for reviewing applicants, your selection process, interview questions, working interviews, hiring, and training methods in place --then you just go through the motions that you already know how to do. And, as the title of this post suggests, you can go through all of this process... without freaking out!!